Monday, November 16, 2009

Britney spears?

i really thnk she needs help you people, i jsut saw on mediatake out a photo of her gettin out of a car wearing bloody panties, now thats just wrong im not a big britney fan but its wrong. why do you thnk she is acting like this? is it publicity or is it Kevin? i mean can a guy really make you like britney bcoz thats ver worrying. you need to stop hating on her! (and answer my question) what are your views on britney nu thing rude or nasty please!

Britney spears?
i think she needs help,and needs to take care of her kids.
Reply:i heard she has bi polar
Reply:Okay, here it goes, understanding the following is based on theory and not on fact.





Britney has been in show business since she was at least 7 years old, managed by her mom, who was, unfortunately for Britney, the typical 'stage mom' more caught up with the financial and career success of her daughter rather than concentrating on those things necessary for a child develop much needed social skills for their future adulthood.





I believe Britney was home schooled, which stunts how a person interacts with their peers and deal with problematic social situations, one of which often occurs in how one deals with the opposite sex.





So, here you have a young lady who, since early childhood, through no fault of hers, knows nothing but how to perform for an audience, a young lady who is accustomed to getting what she wants, when she wants it, a young lady who is accustom to maintaining control over all the people in her life; Imagine a person accustom to all things going exactly the way they want.





Enter Kevin Federline, regretfully, the sole cause of the Britney we see today. This was, virtually, the first and only time Britney did not have her way, and it blew her mind. Besides being hurt, her ego, which is rather large, got shot down. Britney is, simply, reacting like a child would react.





Again, had Britney gone to public school, she would have learned, through socialization, how to handle this situation, emotionally, much differently. Socialization is a big part of growing up, and she missed the boat, so now she's learning, and now is not a good time, especially when children are involved. Most of us have learned we cannot always get what we want, and simply move on. She's just learned this as a young woman in her 20's, and as a result of her age and having children involved, the realization of not getting what she wants is a nightmare.





On the subject of help for Britney, I will say this. Psychologically, she is caught between a rock and a hard place. She now is aware of how she's been used, by everyone, not only by Kevin, but by her family. Her distrust, now, knows no bounds. She figures everyone's using her and she, unfortunately, is correct. Everyone has a vested interest in her. Anyone who makes contact with her has something to gain by that contact. Even Dr. Phil. So who does she trust? Hear me out. She will only trust someone who has nothing to gain by talking with her. Someone who will not get paid, nor laid, someone who will not make money by association. Now here's the hard part...that person does not exist.





Britney needs to stop reacting to Kevin...stop allowing him to dictate her future and how she behaves. If she wants to play the ego game, she's losing. Again, she is reacting to him. She needs to come to grips with the fact it didn't work out, that's life, time to move on (again, we learn this when we were school children; she did not have that advantage, nor did she learn, as we did, one doesn't always get what one wants). She has children, and their welfare should be her sole concern. Not meaning to down her, she is behaving like a pre-teen, which is, again, about where she is in the area of social skills. Time to grow up.





I'll make a correction. There are some people she can totally trust, whom love her unconditionally, whom want nothing but her love. I'm speaking of her children, of course, and the tragedy is, they seem to take a 'back seat', insofar as her priorities are concerned. She is self-absorbed, and immature. Those are not mean things, but rather, they are fact. I don't believe she is aware of it. When she does realize these things, it'll be the beginning of her getting better, but has to recognize their problems, before they can resolve them.
Reply:i FEEL SRRY FOR HER i HOPE SHE HETS THROUGH WHATEVER SHE GOiNG THROUGH....
Reply:well britneys kool i heard tht she had muultiple personality disorders
Reply:i think she is acting like this because she wants attention..i think she will not last till next year


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